How do you feel when you can tell your school day crush that he was your childhood crush? Haha. I did. I met up with my long lost schoolmate after like 30+ years recently.
He was my primary school classmate. To me, he was the best looking guy in class. During that time, I didn't know I had a crush on him until we left our school to move on to secondary. We went to different school, but as my secondary school was near his home, I frequent his home often just to see him. I even stayed on for dinner with his family at times. I didn't know I had a crush on him until much later and I am still not sure why I keep wanting to see him back then.
Fast forward, present day. He didn't change much. His signature hairstyle, boy-next-door look and smile are still what I remembered, except much older. He is straight by the way and married.
We had a great time catching up with each other and from our conversation, I found him to be very open and non-judgmental. Somewhere during our conversation, he told me that one of his friend from his uni intro his partner to him and I took the opportunity and came out to him.
I am not usually the type who would just come out to people, but I am glad I did as I just want to be honest with him, as he me. We talked quite a fair bit about our personal lives and stuff and incidents and people of yesteryear.
I am sure we will keep in touch and hopeful build upon our friendship as we had lost touch for so many years.
2 comments:
hey gachi muchi, pls dun stop blogging. came across your blog through BW and i read your very first post till the last. it is a pity u dun post as regularly as the past as your posts are very original and interesting. can i suggest you at least have a post each month.
wish u good luck in your endeavours.
You are so lucky. An old classmate of mine hit on me when we were still in school. Then he felt guilty and stayed away. I took it as nothing unusual. Anyway I wasn't particularly attracted to him. Later on only after we left school and started working did I find out that he had been bad-mouthing me, outed me and telling everyone how he was straight and I 'took advantage' of him! No wonder old classmates either avoided me or became more distant. Guess I was unlucky.
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