Just entered my 60 year a few days ago and am officially a lao uncle.
Also months before, I celebrated my 10th year anniversary with my partner.
I was torned between wanting a big celebration and yet another part of me wanted a simple dinner
with friends and loved ones. Luckily my brother invited me to join him and his family for the
celebrationand ended up having a family dinner at MBS.
As I separate my gay friends and family friends, I started celebrating very early and work my way till
my big 60.
Surprisingly, I got a message from my ex and met him for a very exclusive Japanese lunch. Chatted
and found out that he recently broke off with his partner of 1 and half years. Encouraged my ex to
open up his circle of friends and join groups like Out in Sg where they organise many well meaning
programs and events for PLUs.
I hope that he will recover from his last relationship and find someone he can be with. That said, I
had also told him that it’s not easy for those above 40s to find love. Many gays brings with themselves
lots of past baggages and sometime due to personality, etc. It’s hard for someone to change their
ways or compromise their standards. But still, no harm trying getting to know more friends, for a start.
As one gets older, we must accept the fact that your contact list will start getting smaller. Just a few
days ago, a friend just passed on as well as famous celebrities or people passing on, most recently
as the Queen of England, Queen Elizeberth. May she rest in peace.
Also my brother had a heart attack but was saved by the doctors when he went to the hospital in time,
before he went unconscious.
So life is fleeting. I really need to start exercising as I am becoming more and more like a bear instead
of a Gachi Muchi.
04 August 2022
Yesterday, was our 10th years together. We did have a small celebration after we came back from the pub and shared a piece of Tiramisu cake to mark our 10th Anniversary. He is fast asleep as he has a long day tomorrow and will be busy till the end of Sunday.
What can I say, time flies and we braved through 10 years together. My partner's work life is getting him very busy and I am glad to see that he is making his way up the ladders in his work life.
As for me, I am just glad to be the person supporting him and his endeavors. He is heading towards the right direction and I am happy for him.
I count my blessing that we are this far in our relationship, which can be rare for guys like myself approaching my 60 in about 2 month's time. He still finds me sexy and still gets turn on by me.
He had turned from a lean guy to a little bear cub and I had turned from a stocky guy to a daddy bear. We both puts on much weight during the 2 year covid restriction. Well, life goes on.
Looking forward to the next 10 years together.
23 February 2022
There was once, many years ago, I met this manly stocky guy in a sauna
and from his mannerism, I can tell that he is a top. It wasn't long
before our eyes met and we ended up in a room. This guy was pretty laid
back and didn't do much so I took charged and gave him a foreplay he
will never forget. Even till now, whenever we meet for coffee, he will
bring up the time, I popped his cherry in the sauna.
You see, there are active top and there are passive top. Depending on
my mood, I will sometimes play the active top and sometimes the passive
top. I am most active when I see someone my type and after a few
minutes of foreplay like lick, nibbling on their sensitive areas, you
can hear them moaning with every move you make. By then, they are
already hooked on what you are doing on them. Those shy person will be
very conscientious how loud they moan, while those unabashed one would
moan out loud. I once had a Jap guy who covers his own mouth to prevent
himself from moaning too loud. I thought that was really funny.
Anyway, back to the stocky guy, he was moaning and was wiggling from my
incessant attack on his sensitive areas, from his neck to his back to
his ass. to his thighs, etc. Slowly I took out the lube and apply to his
hole. He sort of woke up from his senses and with his hand, tried to
stop me from lubing his hole. He says he had not tried getting fucked
and feels that my dick would be too big to go into his tight hole and he
is worried that it will hurt. I tried to pacify him by telling him that
I was just rubbing my dick outside of his hole and will not go in. (of
course I lied). [Note: never believe a top when he says he just rubbing
his dick outside your hole and not go in. It eventually will. hahaha]
With condom on, I lay on his back licking his neck and nibbling on his
ears and I positioned my dick just outside his crack. He was moaning and
breathing heavily, and it wasn't long when my dick slid slowly into his
hole. On and off he will ask me if my dick had gone in, I lied and told
him "no, it's just outside". I know right, I am bad. hahaha,
It took me rather long time, but eventually I was already fully inside
him. He did not feel any pain and he was still moaning from all my
licking and nibbling on his sensitive neck and ears. By then, it was too
late for him, he felt so high and he could not believed that I had
already entered him. Without pulling out my dick, I maneuvered him into
missionary. Then I started pumping in and out slowly. He was moaning
like crazy and I was hitting his prostate. He told me that he felt like
shitting and also he felt like peeing, I told him to relax and just
enjoy the sensations. And he was already leaking precum all over his
abs. not long, he shot his load without touching his cock and I came
immediately after him due to the contraction of his ass. Mind you, he
was really tight and his ass was gripping my cock tightly. I helped him
wiped the cum on his body with the toilet paper and slowly pulls out my
cum filled condom and tie a knot and threw it in the bin.
I then whispered into his ear, 你是我的人了! Haha, we laughed and he asked me
how the hell did I fucked him without him realising it. I told him I
had hypnotized him with my cock. He told me then that it was his first
time and I told him that; "I know". He said it was also his first time
autocum. I told him; “ I know too."
We exchanged numbers and left. We still meet occasionally for coffee but had moved past the sex part and became good friends.
So, to answer the question, is anal sex painful? Well, if done right by the right person, it should not be painful.
